We live in a society that glorifies the busy, the frenetic, the over-scheduled, the manic. It’s as if  there were some badge of honor being handed out to the people who are the “busiest” and that if our calendars aren’t jam-packed with appointments from well before dawn until well after dusk we must not want […]

Have you ever noticed that the things you don’t care about too much come together way easier than the “big deal” desires of life.  Why is it that an email from an old friend arrives the day after we were randomly thinking about them, but the phone hasn’t rung in weeks after interviewing for a […]

Think back to the last time you were faced with a choice that was related to one of your goals. Maybe you have a goal to clean up your diet and lose weight and you were faced with the opportunity to eat a big piece of chocolate cake… Maybe you and your spouse are saving […]

Early in 2016, I decided to follow a passion of my own and pursue a certification in health coaching and what I discovered as the curriculum unfolded was that so many of the things I was learning dovetailed perfectly with the concepts and principles that Deb shares in her programs. That June, at our annual […]

Or maybe it’s just insanity. Angie Flynn here, and NO, I have not signed up for another Ironman race. In fact, I’ve pretty much hung up my swim cap and bike shorts these days. Ironman Texas took a lot out of me and gave me a lot back, all at the same time. I still […]

So far, we’ve covered the first 3 pillars of my Success System – Standards, Discipline, and Accountability. Now it’s time to address the GLUE that holds the whole thing together – Pillar #4 – SYSTEMS. Systems are absolutely essential.  Think of them like the script for a movie.  Can you imagine all of the actors […]

Change is scary.  It can be terrifying.  Every step of the way logic is tugging and pulling at us, determined to hold us back, to keep us stuck; and at some point, it’s going to get overwhelming.   Having a goal and the self-discipline to move forward are important, but they’re never going to be […]

We are happy to announce that Deb Cheslow’s book, UnREALogical® – Real People Remarkable Stories of Transformation is available in downloadable audiobook format. Imagine waking up one day and discovering that you suddenly had the power to create anything you desired in your life. Imagine recreating your entire life so that everything was just the way you want it to be: ideal […]

Last week I promised to let you in on a secret that will change your life if you really internalize it.  See, we’ve talked about setting goals – standards – and then developing the discipline to do what you need to do to move toward your goals each and every day. I imagine when you […]

Hopefully, you’ve invested some time discovering your Standard – your big, A-1 goal. If you haven’t yet, that’s okay – keep at it. The first time I ever really spent time purposefully thinking about what I wanted my life to be after my divorce, it took me WEEKS to actually discover it. It’s a big deal, […]